The Lonely Edges

Ariela Sarai: The Lonely Edges of Leaving a High Control Group

April 24, 2023 Christina Frei Season 3 Episode 1
Ariela Sarai: The Lonely Edges of Leaving a High Control Group
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The Lonely Edges
Ariela Sarai: The Lonely Edges of Leaving a High Control Group
Apr 24, 2023 Season 3 Episode 1
Christina Frei

Topics

  • The pitfalls of good intentions and beautiful causes
  • The dynamics of high control groups (cults)
  • How Ariela got brought into this group
  • The micro-compromises she made
  • Why and when she decided to leave
  • Why she stayed for so long
  • How to distinguish between a healthy stretch and a damaging one
  • Why her students got great results
  • What happened when she left
  • Life after this group
  • The importance of getting licensed as a life coach

Bio:
Ariela has a BA from Columbia University and an MSW from the University of Pennsylvania. She worked as a therapist until the year 2000, when she began teaching an international self-development course. She took on a leadership role and spent over 20 years leading teams and empowering thousands of people. In 2021, Ariela realized she was in a toxic work environment that would never change, so she left the course and started working as a Personal and Leadership development coach. She specializes in getting to the truth of what's happening so that people can rebuild a healthy culture.

Links to Ariela Sarai
Her Website
Ariela's LinkedIn Profile
Ariela on Sensibly Speaking Podcast

 Rachel Bernstein Interview Part 1
Rachel Bernstein Interview Part 2
Rachel Bernstein Interviews Dimitri, Ariela's Son
Ariela on Jon Atack Family & Friends podcast

Resources to Study High Control Groups

Power for All  book
Dr. Steven Hassan www.freedomofmind.com
Dr. Janja Lalich  https://janjalalich.com  
Rachel Bernstein podcast Indoctrination
Sarah and Nippy podcast A Little Bit Culty

 Christina's Links:
Your Beautiful Lonely Edges


 


 

 

Show Notes

Topics

  • The pitfalls of good intentions and beautiful causes
  • The dynamics of high control groups (cults)
  • How Ariela got brought into this group
  • The micro-compromises she made
  • Why and when she decided to leave
  • Why she stayed for so long
  • How to distinguish between a healthy stretch and a damaging one
  • Why her students got great results
  • What happened when she left
  • Life after this group
  • The importance of getting licensed as a life coach

Bio:
Ariela has a BA from Columbia University and an MSW from the University of Pennsylvania. She worked as a therapist until the year 2000, when she began teaching an international self-development course. She took on a leadership role and spent over 20 years leading teams and empowering thousands of people. In 2021, Ariela realized she was in a toxic work environment that would never change, so she left the course and started working as a Personal and Leadership development coach. She specializes in getting to the truth of what's happening so that people can rebuild a healthy culture.

Links to Ariela Sarai
Her Website
Ariela's LinkedIn Profile
Ariela on Sensibly Speaking Podcast

 Rachel Bernstein Interview Part 1
Rachel Bernstein Interview Part 2
Rachel Bernstein Interviews Dimitri, Ariela's Son
Ariela on Jon Atack Family & Friends podcast

Resources to Study High Control Groups

Power for All  book
Dr. Steven Hassan www.freedomofmind.com
Dr. Janja Lalich  https://janjalalich.com  
Rachel Bernstein podcast Indoctrination
Sarah and Nippy podcast A Little Bit Culty

 Christina's Links:
Your Beautiful Lonely Edges